I caught Covid-19 and I’ve been home for two weeks recovering. I have to admit that lately, I have been binging on content from YouTube, TikTok, and IG about Gender Wars, Kevin Samuels (R.I.P.), Leftover Women, Dating in the West, and Passport Bros. I am thankful that I am no longer a part of the typical and traditional dating scene as I am engaged. However, I can empathize with many women and men going through customary dating rituals and issues. I was one of the many MGTOW individuals and the act of going my own way led me to my current fiancee.
The people who regularly read my blog know that I have been in the process of bringing my fiancée to the U.S. from Vietnam for the past three years. I met my future wife, Nghĩa, in 2017 during my first visit to Vietnam. Luckily, I had had my passport since 2015 when I obtained it for a business trip to Hong Kong. I guess you can call me one of the original Passport Bros, although my international travels began and ended in Vietnam. Unlike current Passport Bros, I have not visited the Philippines or Thailand.
What intrigues me about the Passport Bros movement is the unmitigated contempt for it shown by single Black women. As is typical, many women resort to Shame, Insults, Guilt, and the Need to be right (SIGNs) to cancel men who have given up on dating Western women. Instead of dealing with the chaos of Multi-wave Feminism, these men have decided to visit countries that have women with more traditional values.
Western women hate men with passports. Instead of dealing with the facts of why men are flocking to countries like Thailand and the Philippines (also Vietnam, Cambodia, and Laos) to find suitable marriage-minded women, they try to shame the men into staying and dealing with Western female BS.
But going to more traditional countries to find a more traditional woman to marry (verb: wife)is nothing new. I mentioned this in a previous article. Asian-American men have been doing this for decades. After they become successful in their Corporate America job they return to their home countries in Japan, China, South Korea, Vietnam, India, Pakistan, etc, to find a traditional woman. These men realized long ago that Western women and Westernized immigrants were not who they wanted to marry.
Feminists, who literally should not want a man who doesn’t want them, are resorting to name-calling and shaming. They call the Passport Bros pimps, misogynists, rapists, and other vile things. They accuse the men of pillaging third-world countries and taking advantage of women who have no other options.
When shaming doesn’t work Feminists resort to pseudo-anecdotal evidence of men being taken advantage of by scammers. They gather around the campfire to tell tall tales of men being ripped off by pretty little exotic women. And while this does occasionally happen to men who think with their penises instead of their brains or men who ignore the obvious warning signs, relationship scams happen everywhere. Everywhere.
All you have to do is check Instagram or TikTok and you’ll find some female ranting and bragging about how she has multiple simps to pay her bills. Simps are Beta males. These men would rather kowtow to women in order to get sex, rather than stand up and be their natural Alpha male selves.
I am speechless as to why these women even care. Alongside the videos I mentioned previously, are plenty more videos of women espousing their disdain for men to the point they energetically proclaim that they don’t need men for anything. They can get their own bag (money, home, material things). So again I ask, why do they even care that men are leaving?
While the answer likely has some variation, the truth is probably very simple. Women are lying to themselves. Women find it difficult to admit they are wrong or mistaken, especially to a man. They will twist and distort facts and string different issues together to make their point seem valid. It doesn’t work. Quite often men are left staring at them with dumbfounded expressions wondering how the public education system has failed to teach women critical thinking.
This takes me back to my original question, Why do women care if men who don’t want them are leaving? I am reminded of a time I went to a Walmart with a local Vietnamese woman I was dating before I met my fiancée. We stepped into the checkout line to purchase groceries and there was a black female cashier. My GF was in front of me and I’m sure at first it didn’t appear that we were together. However, once we started gathering our groceries and coming up with a plan to carry them to the car the cashier gave me a major attitude. She never said hello, and she never even told me the total. She just added everything up and stood there avoiding eye contact. I made a joke about the groceries not costing as much as I thought and she stared at me deadpan. I caught on to what was happening, so I quickly bagged my groceries and left without saying another word. My GF also noticed the behavior and wanted to get away from the cashier as quickly as possible.
Now here’s the thing. That cashier would have never given me the time of day had I been alone. But because I was an older Black man with a younger Vietnamese girl, I somehow offended her. So again I ask, Why did she even care?
Obviously, not all women are like this the same way, not all men exhibit traits women find deplorable. Men understand this, but women stick to their guns when they talk in generalities. Women also stick to their guns when it comes to their double standards.
Many young women say they want to marry a traditional man who’ll take care of the bills, provide a home, and do anything else they desire. However, these women often do not want to accept the traditional responsibilities of women. They don’t want to be a homemaker or a housewife, nor do they want to clean or cook. Also, they expect the man to enter the relationship already behaving like a “traditional husband” whereas they can adopt a wait-and-see attitude before they start performing wifely duties.
The Men Go Their Own Way (MGTOW) movement is a profound response to the treatment men have received from women, particularly feminists. Feminists have someone transitioned from seeking equality to seeking subjugation. It is no longer enough for women to be considered equal to a man. Women must be on top, they must be the boss and in full authority in a relationship.
The reasons given supposedly have to do with rebellion against the status quo patriarchy but no real consideration is given to the facts of why the patriarchy naturally exists and what the patriarchy has put into place regarding the existing global infrastructure. But some people may argue that this is beside the point. Maybe.
But the arguments put forth by feminists are a clear indication that feminists don’t simply want equality, they want superiority and authority. This means that the formerly oppressed now fight to become the oppressor. Essentially, they want payback for the centuries of being women in a male-dominated society.
Is this what Feminism is all about? Why can’t people who recognize the failure of the Western dating culture simply go their own way?