I Am Not A Misogynist: Pro Man is not Anti-Woman

When people read the essays and blog posts that I’ve written about modern-day feminism and modern women, particularly American and other types of Western women, they typically jump to the conclusion that I am anti-woman or a misogynist. 

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The truth is I believe that the first and second waves of feminism were significant and impactful developments in American society and then of course globally as well. But pretty much after that I think feminism wasn’t about any form of equality between men and women, it was about lifting women and women’s concerns above everyone else’s concerns. In particular, in the mid-1900s Feminism was specifically about lifting the concerns rights, wishes, and wants of White women above every other woman. 

So now when we look at Feminism from a perspective based on what we see happening around us in 2024, it isn’t about helping women it’s about destroying men. Every aspect of modern-day feminism is focused on the goal of minimizing the impact of men in society and trivializing it to the point where we think that children can do what men do in society. 

I won’t go into all the facts about how men maintain the infrastructure of the world and keep it so safe that women can do what they do. We all know this, whether women want to admit it or not. It is all around us. We see it and we experience it daily when you watch truck drivers delivering your goods and we see service people coming to repair the things that you need to be repaired and you see pilots and bus drivers and firemen and all of that. 

Women all over the world can talk about how they can do the same jobs as men but the fact is we know that they don’t want to. Women prefer to work in more glamorous and softer roles, And those roles have very little to do with maintaining the infrastructure of society.

But moving on from that, the most important aspect of this modern-day feminism is that the movement is growing in women between 18 and 24. And the problem that arises from that is that women between the ages of 18 and 24 don’t know s***. They have not experienced anything they haven’t been out in the world. Likely, most women between these ages haven’t left the country, the state, the city, or their local community.

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But these women are playing with global stakes, tackling the so-called “patriarchy” and claiming to be under its thumb. The truth is they have never been under the pain of the patriarchy, what they have experienced are the benefits of being under the patriarchy, of being so protected in society and having their needs and wants so prevalent in the minds of its leadership that they can walk out in the middle of the street and talk complete utter nonsense about men to women and know that they are safe.

But to get back to my point, I believe children have a better chance of becoming productive members of society in a two-parent household with a mom and a father, with a husband and a wife, in the same way I know that women are important to our society and their contributions are important and should be respected. Women are the natural caregivers of the world. We need them. We need this to care for children and our people.

Someone has to do the dirty work, and men are more equipped to do so. Someone has to do the work of nurturing and women are better equipped to do so.

Every time a woman says something asinine like, “I not going to act like his mother” she is denying what god instilled in her. The desire, ability, and talent to make someone feel special through her care. Men don’t want women to act like their mothers, they only want to be treated in a respectful and caring manner.

I love people. But I don’t like stupid people, rude people or liars. I love women. But I don’t like ignorant women, arrogant women, or delusional women who take no accountability for their actions.