The internet is ripe with women (and some men) claiming that the Passport Bros can go ahead and leave the country because no one cares. Yet, many of those women, and men, spend an excessive amount of time shaming and insulting Passport Bros about their decision to find a lover, or a wife, overseas.
In this article, I will discuss why Modern Western women, especially American Women, will never accept losing the Passport Bros, despite making bold statements to the contrary.
Exploring the One-Sided Dynamics of Modern Western Relationships
We live in a world that is marked by globalization. You can wake up in the morning on the West Coast of the United States and have a conversation in real-time with a potential new lover on the East Coast of Africa.
The Passport Bros movement has seen men travel across the globe to meet fit, feminine, friendly, and agreeable women in Thailand, the Dominican Republic, Brazil, Columbia, the Phillippines, Indonesia, Vietnam, and Malaysia. Some brothers are even trying their hand in Japan, South Korea, and Taiwan.
The dynamics of long-distance relationships have undergone significant transformations. The idea of love knows no boundaries is empowering, and as explorers, men find themselves increasingly drawn to connections that transcend borders.
We are especially interested if those connections offer the peace and simplicity we prefer in our home lives.
However, the prospect of Western men forming relationships with foreign wives has stirred up a wide range of emotions and opinions, particularly among modern Western women.
Women have made a name for themselves on YouTube and TikTok for blasting Passport Bros. Men traveling the world to find love have been called everything from poor and deadbeat to human traffickers.
These accusations often come from women who have little experience with international dating, culture, or relationships. Most cannot even point to Thailand or the Philippines on a map. They simply regurgitate widely used stereotypes and theories that are easy to disprove.
Five Commonly Used Ugly Lies Against Passport Bros
- Passport Bros are broke (financially unstable). This argument amazes most men. Long-haul airline tickets range from $500 to over $2000. Hotels and accommodations for a week-long stay in Brazil can topple $1000 per week. This doesn’t include taxis, food, entertainment, or shopping.
The idea that a man who has no money can suddenly come up with thousands of dollars to find a suitable wife is counterintuitive. When women say this they are trying to shame men for purposefully going to a country where their money has more value to get more value out of their money.
Let’s look at the irony of this: Bali, Indonesia is a Bucket List travel adventure for many people. Passport Bros travel to Indonesia to meet beautiful women. So, Passport Bros are traveling to Bucket List destinations, but Modern women still call them “broke”. It’s absurd. - Foreign women are less educated. This accusation is not only insulting to women around the world, it is completely false. Education is paramount in cultures around the world. Young boys and girls are taught from an early age that to compete in the working world, higher education is a must.
- Foreign women know very little English. Many women from countries around the world learn English as their second language in school. Often they take additional classes depending on their career track. They grow up bilingual, mastering two languages, which is more than most Americans can say.
- Passport Bros have no “game” (no rizz) and don’t know how to approach women. The fact is that most Passport Bros are over thirty years old and have had one or more long-term relationships. Many, like myself, have been married and even have children or grandchildren. To imply that Passport Bros are incapable of having a relationship because they cannot talk to women is implausible.
- Foreign women only want a green card. We cannot underestimate the allure of American culture, and charm. It’s easy to succumb to stereotypes that assume unions between American males and foreign females are solely motivated by the pursuit of a green card.
However, a factual examination reveals a reality rooted in tradition, shared values, and the quest for genuine connection. Foreign women want a husband more than they want a green card. Many foreign women are raised to be wives and mothers, and they embrace the natural differences between men and women.
Coming to America and possibly becoming an American citizen – with all that it offers – is a pleasant value-added proposition to finding a mate.
What do Western Women Fear When They See Foreign Women with Passport Bros (American Men)?
Everything men do, believe, or act on in Western society requires them to be sensitive to the feelings and opinions of women. We must strive to be compassionate and open-minded, despite not receiving the same treatment in return.
I cannot do that here. We must be blunt about the obvious reasons why some modern Western women grapple with the idea of losing their men to foreign wives.
Foreign Women are Threats to Modern Western Women
Cultural Differences: The clash of cultures can be a source of concern for some individuals. While Modern Western women are outwardly proud of their upbringing, many fear that the cultural disparities between their feminist upbringing and the traditional upbringing of their foreign counterparts put them at a disadvantage.
Societal Expectations: Although societal expectations placed on women in Western cultures have evolved, some women still feel a sense of loss. The dating pool is already shallow. The problem is exacerbated when males actively exit the dating scene to choose foreign wives who adhere to more traditional gender roles.
Economic Disparities: Despite their rampant gold-digging and desire for hypergamy, Modern Western women accuse foreign wives of seeking financial stability rather than a genuine emotional connection with a Passport Bros. I think they fear someone is beating them to the punch.
Competition for Partners: The dating pool is diverse and shallow. When it becomes globalized Modern Western women feel an increased sense of competition for partners and are forced to re-evaluate what they bring to the marriage table.
Family Traditions: Cultural and familial traditions play a significant role in Western societies. Some modern Western women resist family traditions and focus on career planning and self-indulgent soul searching. It’s hard to compete with traditional women for a man who prioritizes family values over a career.
Insecurity and Self-Worth: The fear of being replaced or not measuring up to perceived ideals may contribute to insecurities. Women have never listened to men say what they want. Instead, they try to tell men what they should find attractive. Modern Western women struggle with feelings of inadequacy knowing that foreign wives are preferred for their qualities, traits Modern Women don’t possess.
Patriarchal Perceptions: Many people don’t know what a patriarch is despite their use of the word. Furthermore, it has been proven that women who are against the so-called patriarchy are firmly supportive of establishing a matriarchy in its place. They would happily exchange one gender-based autocracy for another.
Such an act is not the perfect segue for feminists on the way to securing gender equality. Modern Western women are fearful knowing that foreign wives come from cultures with more traditional gender roles. This further fuels an abnormal fear of the perpetuation of patriarchal dynamics within relationships and society. In other words, with lots of foreign wives, men will be allowed to continue being men and women will be women.
In summation, Modern feminists and Western women don’t want to lose Western men to traditional foreign women. Despite making bold statements to the contrary, Modern Women do care about the exodus of men from The States. They know that, right now, foreign women are more attractive and more suitable because of what they bring to the table.
Yet, in classic style, Modern Women refuse to accept responsibility for turning men away and turn a blind eye to the treatment men have received for decades. They do not listen to what men have to say. Instead, they try to tell us what to think, how to feel, and what type of woman we should appreciate.
And now that we’ve decided to go our own way, they really don’t want to let us go.
The Passport Bros movement will only grow. Modern women will continue using simps as wallets, daddy substitutes, and scapegoats for their mental illness.
The tales of Passport Bros and their new wives present a resolute testament to the unyielding power of peace and simplicity when forging companionship, These stories showcase the remarkable ability of individuals from disparate corners of the globe to unite and create a tapestry of interconnected lives and legacies that transcend borders and challenge cultural stereotypes.
